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When You’re Afraid Of The Very Thing That You Want

Sometimes the very thing that we want scares the crap out of us. Why is that, and what do you do about it?

When we go after our dream, we begin to find ourselves in uncharted territory. And it can get very scary, very quickly, and this will stop us in our tracks.

As we begin to move out of our “comfort zone” to what we thought we actually wanted, we can begin to question why we ever made that decision.  Click for more below, and watch the video where I talk about this.

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Why We Get Stuck, And How To Break Free

Sometimes we find ourselves at a crossroads: Wanting to go in a particular direction, or perhaps confused as to what that direction is.

Our soul seems to be crying out for something more. There’s a yearning for a new direction and possibly a new career; but we’re lost in a sea of confusion, and we can’t clearly see the horizon.

So we keep trying, and searching, and yet we stay stuck; stuck in our comfort zone, which becomes incredibly uncomfortable over time. We try and try to move forward, but strangely, it can seem okay to be where we are are, until we realize that we’re like a bird that’s stayed in the nest too long. (We’ve outgrown it, and it’s getting a bit smelly in there.)

Like allot of people, I’ve experienced this feeling many times.

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It’s Time To Declutter To Create Abundance (Video)

Clutter is the dam that blocks the flow of abundance in our lives.

And it’s not just the physical clutter. Our memories shrouded in leftover emotions from past experiences will keep us stuck in a state of not moving forward in our life as well.

Seeing the physical clutter works like an energetic block, and the emotional clutter stops it up even further.

Here are tips to declutter on both a physical and mental/emotional level.

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What’s Stopping You?

I’m guessing there’s some area of your life that you’re not living FULLY.
 
Some aspect of it that isn’t totally in balance.
 
Is it the work you do? The relationship you’re in (or not in)? Perhaps missing out on fun and recreation?
Every client I’ve ever worked with has had some area of their life that was out of balance, and chances are you do too. (Is anyone’s life perfect?)
And when it comes to shifting that area, I just want to ask:  What’s stopping you?
 
What’s holding you back from going after what you really want?
 
For me, its usually been fear.
 
Fear that I’d fail.
Fear that I’d be rejected. Again.
Fear of scarcity… that the money would run out… 
 
But the truth is that what really runs out is time.
 
The time to live in your power and be really connected to who you are.
 
To make the changes you want to make in the world before it’s too late and your time is up.
 
You may be aware in the back of your mind that time is indeed running out, but you kid yourself that you can buy more time when you truly can’t.
 
It’s like how a business owner feels at the end of the year when their business is still failing and they didn’t take the opportunity during the year to do what they needed to do to improve their results.
 
Then they suddenly realize that it’s too late.
 
If you want to make an impact on the world but you’re stuck in a job that’s not in alignment with your passion…
 
If you don’t like where you live and you’ve thought about moving for years but you haven’t been able to let go…
 
If your relationships aren’t where you want them to be (personal OR family)…
 
It’s time to consider the mindset behind the block.
Is it fear of something unknown? Beliefs caused by past experience?
It’s time to look under the hood and find out what needs tweaking.
Look within, because that’s the only place you’ll find the answers.
And if you need help, I’m here for you. 

Stop Looking Outside Yourself!

The pain of not knowing our direction can cause HUGE amounts of anxiety.
Asking everyone (except ourselves) what the answer is, and then fear and all sorts of self-sabotaging creeps in. And I mean creep!
The truth is, you can ask 50 people the SAME question (assuming you’ll get the same answer from each one), but most likely, you won’t!
 
And EVEN if most of them have the same answer, it might not be the right answer for you!
 
So on you go asking more people the same question, and still not finding the right answer.
Then your anxiety sky rockets so high that your head feels like it’s going to implode. Ouch!
 
That’s because only YOU know the answer. The problem is that either you don’t trust your gut, or you’ve totally lost the connection with that inner voice that’s trying to tell you YOUR truth.
 
You see, we each have our own truth that’s unique and in alignment with US.
 
So we need to love ourselves enough, believe in ourselves enough, or if we’re really out of practice; get some help from someone that can get us reconnected with ourselves and find the answer QUICK!
 
You’ve got to start by taking a deep breath, relaxing and looking within and FEEL what the right answer is.
 
It can take practice and lots of belief and trust.
 
But if you’re struggling in this area and you want help NOW, I have something special for you!
It’s the Alignment Quick! Session: 
 
Need to get unstuck and figure things out NOW?! With my wham-bam visualization techniques, I help you quickly de-stress, drop the anxiety like a hot potato and get crystal clear on you’re next move. (It’s only $197 for a 90-minute Alignment Quick! session). 
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Are You Living An Authentic Life?

This morning, someone asked me what I do. And every time I break it down, it comes down to helping people take these three steps:

  1. Heal your past.
  2. Create your future.
  3. Live an authentic life.

Sounds simple, doesn’t it? The truth is millions of people are struggling with this every day. Whether it’s an entrepreneur who’s confused and stuck, or a professional woman who’s thinking of getting a divorce, or someone who’s grappling with PTSD; it’s truly the same process. All. The. Same.

Let me explain with the how and the why this is necessary to be fulfilled as I go through each step.

  1. Heal your past. Would you put new decorations in your house if it needed a good cleaning? No. And you wouldn’t be doing the mindset work and focusing on what you want when you’ve got emotional baggage stuck in your subconscious mind. (That’s why people try to diet and they don’t lose weight because they’ve still got the emotional stuff going on.) So, It’s important to work through it and then move on to step two. I don’t care what it is that you’re trying to accomplish.
  2. Create your future. Getting clear on your direction is the next step. But, like tapping into the past within the subconscious mind, you need to dig deep into the emotions again to discover your true path. Get out of your head and into your heart. Be honest with yourself, and shut out what you think you should do, or what other people want you to do, or anything else that doesn’t align with your heart. It might sound corny, but it’s the only way.
  3. Live an authentic life. After you’ve healed the past and started on your path, it’s important to stay in that emotional guidance of your heart. And there are many roadblocks that can get in your way: Losing focus, being fearful or anxious, falling into mindset traps such as scarcity, and more. Creating mindset habits that will keep you steady and on your path so you’re living the life that’s truly YOU, and doing the work that’s in sync with who you ARE, is that authenticity that will leave you feeling that you’re living a life that’s full.

These steps have the power to get you into alignment with who you are, what you want, and get past the residual emotions and limiting beliefs that have kept you stuck living a life that’s not authentic.

You can try to do this on your own. But, I recommend you get some help with this from someone that has the skills and experience to help you work at a deep level. (And reading a book or watching a YouTube video doesn’t cut it.) Feel free to contact me, and find out how to get the results you want.

We Become Programmed for Failure

We are born connected to abundance…

which is everywhere. But then, we hear, see and learn things as we’re growing up that tells us otherwise.
Whether it’s family, friends or other people around us, we experience things that take us away from the belief that there is abundance.
It could be something like “you have to work hard for money”, or some other negative affirmation that gets caught in our mind.
From our experiences we have developed these beliefs that can stop us on our path; we may want to achieve something, but on a subconscious level, we don’t believe it’s going to happen.
Or maybe it will happen, but it’ll be very difficult.
So we don’t try, or if we do try, we give off that attitude – or energy that keeps success at bay.
But, it’s possible to shift those beliefs.
If fact, it’s not only possible, but I’ve done it with many clients over the years who kept spinning their wheels.
It can be very hard to see what’s in our own way.
That’s because it’s stuck at the subconscious level of our mind, and since the subconscious is our “horsepower”, it controls us – whether we like it or not.
So as we get older, we can come to realize that we have lots of layers of beliefs that have built up over time.
What do you do?
You start peeling them away. You work through the layers, and get yourself back to that feeling of abundance you were born with, when you were playful and imaginative.
Peeling those layers is what I help entrepreneurs do in the Mustang Mindset Academy; a program that has all the tools for mindset success.
If you’ve tried everything else and it’s not working, it’s time to look within. I’d love to have you join me.