BS Money Stories

I hear it all the time:
 
“I can’t afford it…” or “I just don’t have the money right now”, or some other MONEY STORY….
 
But what it’s really about is FEAR and the resulting RESISTANCE to make the changes you want to make in your life.
 
Yep, you can blame the bank account, or the husband who isn’t working, or the debt from some unexpected expenses… but…
 
The truth is, that I CAN SEE RIGHT THROUGH IT.

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My Story

I’m 16 years old. My parents had divorced a few years earlier, mainly because of my father’s alcoholism. And now, my mother is marrying another alcoholic, and my father, who I felt close to, moves 1,500 miles away. I feel lost and my self-worth drops. I’m thinking: Does anyone care about me?  (By the way, I never saw my dad again, and he died when I was 42.) My new step father dies of a heart attack a year after my mother marries him. So, I meet an older guy, who I’m thinking will give me the security I need, and we get married when I’m 19.

Now I’m 28 years old. By then, I had three horrendous pregnancy losses: A stillborn girl at eight months, then an ectopic pregnancy that required surgery, and a premature baby that didn’t survive. My husband cheats on me with a prostitute and is addicted to various sedatives, and threatens me with bodily harm, so I get a restraining order and a divorce. I had moved to a state where I didn’t have friends, I had lost my children, and at the age of 28, I feel like my life is OVER.

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When You’re Afraid Of The Very Thing That You Want

Sometimes the very thing that we want scares the crap out of us. Why is that, and what do you do about it?

When we go after our dream, we begin to find ourselves in uncharted territory. And it can get very scary, very quickly, and this will stop us in our tracks.

As we begin to move out of our “comfort zone” to what we thought we actually wanted, we can begin to question why we ever made that decision.  Click for more below, and watch the video where I talk about this.

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It’s Time To Declutter To Create Abundance (Video)

Clutter is the dam that blocks the flow of abundance in our lives.

And it’s not just the physical clutter. Our memories shrouded in leftover emotions from past experiences will keep us stuck in a state of not moving forward in our life as well.

Seeing the physical clutter works like an energetic block, and the emotional clutter stops it up even further.

Here are tips to declutter on both a physical and mental/emotional level.

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We Become Programmed for Failure

We are born connected to abundance…

which is everywhere. But then, we hear, see and learn things as we’re growing up that tells us otherwise.
Whether it’s family, friends or other people around us, we experience things that take us away from the belief that there is abundance.
It could be something like “you have to work hard for money”, or some other negative affirmation that gets caught in our mind.
From our experiences we have developed these beliefs that can stop us on our path; we may want to achieve something, but on a subconscious level, we don’t believe it’s going to happen.
Or maybe it will happen, but it’ll be very difficult.
So we don’t try, or if we do try, we give off that attitude – or energy that keeps success at bay.
But, it’s possible to shift those beliefs.
If fact, it’s not only possible, but I’ve done it with many clients over the years who kept spinning their wheels.
It can be very hard to see what’s in our own way.
That’s because it’s stuck at the subconscious level of our mind, and since the subconscious is our “horsepower”, it controls us – whether we like it or not.
So as we get older, we can come to realize that we have lots of layers of beliefs that have built up over time.
What do you do?
You start peeling them away. You work through the layers, and get yourself back to that feeling of abundance you were born with, when you were playful and imaginative.
Peeling those layers is what I help entrepreneurs do in the Mustang Mindset Academy; a program that has all the tools for mindset success.
If you’ve tried everything else and it’s not working, it’s time to look within. I’d love to have you join me. 

The Co-Workers That Make Us Rethink Why We’re Still In The Job

I recall when I was considering taking the giant leap from the J.O.B. I became keenly aware of the co-workers around me who were so miserable that it was affecting their health.

You know: The ones who have an excel spreadsheet that automatically calculates how many days are left before retirement. And believe me, some of them had a long way to go, even though they were looking a bit rough around the edges.

Not to be rude, but stress does take its toll.

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