Confidence Narcissistic Abuse Narcissists Self Esteem Self Love Trust

Getting Unstuck From Our Story Of Abuse

Hello Goddess.  Let’s talk a little bit about our story. 

Especially for those of us who have experienced narcissistic abuse or another toxic relationship, I know how hard it can be to “stay stuck” in the story, and be the victim. I DID IT.

After all, we’re only human, right?

But the truth is, we are a soul that’s living a human experience, and part of that experience is to live through fear, trust issues, confidence ups and downs and more!

But then there comes a time when it all needs to come to an end. It’s time to stop the craziness, and finally move through it and actually be a better person for the experience.

AND WHAT ARE WE LEARNING YOU ASK?

Self Love.

And one of the reasons I’m so passionate about helping women is that we forget to love ourselves. We’re the caretaker, aren’t we?

We worry about everyone else. And when someone comes along that tells us we’re beautiful and idealizes us, we swallow it hook, line and sinker because we aren’t telling OURSELVES that.

But the truth is, we don’t need to be told if we already BELIEVE.

And our beliefs are buried at the subconscious level of the mind, where they stay stuck. But when we have an awareness that they’re there, we can begin to shift them.

We can create a new belief by turning the negative into a positive. 

We can look in the mirror and say:  I AM ENOUGH!

Because the truth is, you are!  You’re a spiritual being.  A GODDESS for goodness sake!

And when we all see that, and fully embody that belief of who we really are, our confidence goes up, our level of trust in our own judgment improves, and we’re finally willing to step into the life that we deserve.

But we must get help to get the clarity we need. 

We especially need it after we’ve been experiencing gaslighting and other abusive games because it turns our mind into a fog and we lose the connection with our heart’s desire and our soul’s purpose.

As always, the question I ask is:  How are you loving yourself?

What are you doing to feel better about yourself? 

Because the truth is that we can’t function effectively in life, and ultimately help others, when our energy is drained from being stuck and spinning around in the cesspool that is our story.

So, pull yourself out of it.  Grab a lifeline.  Get help.

Do it now, before your life is a story that no one wants to read, especially you!

How are you loving yourself?

Kathleen xx

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